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I am writing this because I know a lot of reverts are really torn between what they want (practicing Islam, wearing hijab, openly praying, eating halal food) and what their family expects. So I just wanted to share a couple things that made my life SO much easier.

When I first converted to Islam telling my parents was something I was terrified to do. But I ended up writing a 4 page letter explaining why I converted, Islam in general, and why I felt lucky to have such wonderful parents. At first, my mom was very confused yet sort of supported me BUT she insisted on thinking that we believe in 2 different Gods and believed in all these Islam rumors from the news. She would critisize me on wearing hijab and guilt me by saying she was afraid for my safety. It was hell because I was torn between obeying my parents and what I felt was right in my heart.

Now I am transitioning into wearing hijab all the time, openly praying, and currently trying to get my mom to make the switch to halal meat. She even recently asked to read my Qu’ran.

NUMBER 1 NUMBER 1 NUMBER 1 : Don’t be afraid to share information your parents. There is a 97.89% chance your parents know about Islam only from the news. Share information with them, try to explain things, give them Islamic literature. Be passionate and patient in your approach. It’s frustrating but having a nasty attitude will only anger them and push them away.

NUMBER 2: Be persistent. Okay, so your parents might say “TAKE THAT THING OFF YOUR HEAD” or something along the lines of that. Respect your parents but keep trying. Keep praying. Keep your Iman up. Take a slow transition into hijab. Explain why you wear hijab. Keep giving them Islamic literature. Don’t give up.

NUMBER 3: Remember that even if your parents don’t support you, you have an awesome Ummah and Allah is ALWAYS watching over you. It is hard to feel like a black sheep or like your parents are disappointed in you for your choice but I can assure you that it will get better. Support is always available!

(Via:Tumblr.)

I love this. (:

Usually,I love to read about how people who convert to Islam lived their life.

And this story,really inspires me much.

Eventhough she had a rough time convincing them about Islam,

in the end,the mum accepts.

I hope that someone will read this.

xoxo

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